Alex and Lauren may have grown up just one freeway exit apart, but fate waited until a friend’s party at an infamous bar in San Francisco’s Marina District for their paths to finally cross. Alex wasted no time asking Lauren out that very night, and in true girl-boss fashion, she promptly scheduled him into her calendar….for three weeks later. From shark cages in Hawaii to beautiful volcano hikes in Europe (and an impressive amount of delayed flights in between), it turns out that they’re clearly on the same page - equal parts loving, quick-witted, and adventurous enough to make every chapter interesting.
Between Alex’s Notre Dame spirit and Lauren’s love of books, their story was bound to be a best-seller. He brings the luck of the Irish, she brings the literary flair. And while she dares to cheer for the Cal Bears, he concluded that this plot twist just adds more intrigue to their story. Alex taught Lauren
Our Story
not to fear recipes that require the oven, and Lauren showed Alex that a pun really can (and should!) be used for every occasion. They do both agree that the perfect Saturday starts with coffee at the North Beach Farmers Market and ends with epic karaoke at Silver Cloud.
They feel so lucky to be celebrating their wedding close to where they grew up and to share their love of Northern California with you all, while proving, once again, why they could never imagine living anywhere but the Bay Area.
Schedule of Events
Welcome Party
Friday, August 21, 2026
Lo & Behold Bar + Kitchen
214 Healdsburg Ave, Healdsburg, CA 95448
7 pm - 10 pm
THE MAIN EVENT
Saturday, August 22, 2026
Mountain House Estate
For GPS, use "Mountain House Estate"
38000 CA-128, Cloverdale, CA 95425
4 pm ceremony, dinner and dancing to follow
transportation will be provided to and from Healdsburg
Wedding After Party
Saturday, August 22, 2026
Duke's Spirited Cocktails
111 Plaza St, Healdsburg, CA 95448
10:30 pm - 2 am
Post-Wedding Buffet Brunch
Sunday, August 23, 2026
Healdsburg Bar & Grill (patio)
245 Healdsburg Ave, Healdsburg, CA 95448
Drop in any time between 10:30 am - 2 pm.
Brunch runs through 2:30 pm.
Travel & Accomodations
While our Wedding Ceremony and Reception will be at Mountain House Estate in Unrestricted Mendocino County just outside of Cloverdale, all lodging and surrounding events will be centered around Healdsburg, California.
Getting to Healdsburg
From San Francisco International Airport (SFO)
estimated drive time 1 hour 45 minutes
Take US-101 North through San Francisco and across the Golden Gate Bridge (tolls apply). Continue on US-101 N for ~60 miles to the Central Healdsburg (Exit 503). Turn left onto Healdsburg Avenue and continue into town.
From Oakland International Airport (OAK)
estimated drive time 1 hour 35 minutes
Take I-880 North toward Oakland. Merge onto I-580 West and cross the Richmond/San Rafael Bridge (toll required). Continue onto US-101 North for ~ 60 miles to Central Healdsburg (Exit 503). Turn left onto Healdsburg Avenue to reach town.
Healdsburg to
Mountain House Estate
We encourage all guests to take our complimentary shuttle to the venue, which is about 35 minutes outside of Healdsburg. Shuttle Pick-up and Drop Off is at Hotel Healdsburg. Public parking is available at Healdsburg Lot A, a short walk from the shuttle pick-up. On-site parking is also available for those who prefer to drive to the venue, but cars cannot be left at the venue overnight.
To reserve your shuttle space, please indicate your intention to use the shuttle when you submit your RSVP.
estimated drive time 35 minutes
From Healdsburg, take US-101 North. Continue for ~18.5 miles then take CA-128 West toward Fort Bragg/Mendocino. Turn left onto CA-128 West and continue for 6.8 miles. The venue will be on the left.
Note on Navigation:
For GPS, use "Mountain House Estate."
Cell service can be unreliable.
We recommend downloading directions before leaving.
Lodging
If you'd like to book any pre- or post-event nights, first book your room through the link above. Once confirmed, reach out to LoreLai (loralai@hotelhealdsburg.com) at Hotel Healdsburg with the name on the reservation and the additional dates you'd like to add.
Join us at
Hotel Healdsburg
25 Matheson Street
Healdsburg, CA 95448
We’d love to have you close! Stay with us at Hotel Healdsburg for the dates of Friday, August 21st through Sunday, August 23rd.
Book your room by Monday, July 13th to receive discounted rates.
Copy & paste this URL into your browser: https://be.synxis.com/?Hotel=12429&Chain=5154&arrive=2026-08-21&depart=2026-08-23&adult=1&child=0&group=2608LAUREN
Registry
While celebrating together is what matters most to us, we are truly thankful for any gift you may choose to give. We’ve curated a selection from Crate & Barrel and Williams Sonoma with cozy moments, joyful gatherings, and our future home in mind.
Frequently Asked Questions
Frequently Asked Questions
When is the RSVP deadline?
Please RSVP by July 6, 2026
Can I change my RSVP?
If you need to modify your RSVP, please resubmit your RSVP with the correct information or email our planner Michelle at Michelle@LavenderCrown.com
Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?
Mainly outdoors. Please avoid thin heels (woodchips + lawn), and bring sunglasses and a light wrap for warm days and cooler evenings.
What is the best airport to use?
For guests flying in, we encourage the use of Oakland International Airport (OAK) or San Francisco International Airport (SFO).
Is this wedding kid-friendly?
Whilee we adore your little ones, our celebration will be an adults-only event (21+) due to space considerations.
Are plus-ones allowed?
We aren't allowing plus-ones at our wedding.
If a guest is included, it will be noted on your invitation (“and guest”).
What is the best airport to use?
For guests flying in, we encourage the use of Oakland International Airport (OAK) or San Francisco International Airport (SFO).
What menu options are available?
We will offer an option on fish, chicken, steak or a vegarian entree. Please share any additional dietary needs in your RSVP so we can ensure you’re well taken care of.
What is the dress code?
Garden Formal.
Bright colors and patterns are encouraged. Classic suits and tuxedos are also welcome.
Who can I contact if I have more questions about the wedding?
Contact our planner Michelle at Michelle@LavenderCrown.com with any further questions ahead of the wedding.
Outfit Inspo
Repondez S'il Vous Plait
or visit laurenandalex.rsvpify.com
Please RSVP by July 6, 2026
If you have any changes to your RSVP, resubmit the form or contact our planner, Michelle, at michelle@lavendercrown.com
Memory Album
Planned and Coordinated by Lavender Crown Events
